好書分享 Part 1

之前睇過allan & barbara既why men can't listen and women can't read maps...覺得好好睇, 睇左兩次, 佢地寫既野好寫實, 導出好多道理

今次我買了另一本叫Why men need more clue & women need more shoes, 同樣好睇, 等我extract 一d野出來比大家睇 (我都知大家無心機睇gala, 我其實都係留番黎比自己第時睇)

 

Chapter 1: Nagging

A female brain is organised for multi-tracking . She can run a computer programe while talking on the phone plus listen to a second conversation behind her.  She can talk about several unrelated topics in the one conversation and use five vocal tones. Men can only identify only three of those tones. As a result, men often lose the plot when listeining to women talk.

Male brains are organized for mono-tracking. They can only concentrate on one thing at a time.

Nagging is so often a clear signal that a communication problem exists between two people. Instead of addressing that problem, however, it's usually far easier to pick on little trivial things and bait each other with those instead.  Women often expect men to intuitively pick up on what they're thinking, without actually saying it.

Solution:

when women learn to say directly what they mean, men respond more readily. Women need to understand that male brain fuction is comparatively simple and men can rarely guess what their wives and partners really mean beyond the actual words they've uttered.

--簡單d講, 女人應該直接d (不過都幾難做bor好似)